But I made errors, too. We simplified my profile — self-protectively — to the level of blandness, and discovered pen-friends that are romantic.

But I made errors, too. We simplified my profile — self-protectively — to the level of blandness, and discovered pen-friends that are romantic.

We emailed and emailed males, postponing a face-to-face, before the presumptions we both brought along to a very first date had been ludicrous. In a single case we ‘fell in love’ upfront, having written months of novels one to the other. He took against me personally in the beginning sight.

The constant real judgement ended up being a surprise in the beginning.