Let s just enjoy one another. I don t realise why we have to place a label onto it.
He ll make it appear it s really just his way of being opportunistic like it s just a matter of principle, but. Because a label means accountability. Then you can voice your concerns, you can expect him to be there for you or reassure you, and you can call him out for his crappy behavior if he s your boyfriend or you re in a committed relationship. But then you can t really hold him accountable because he never actually agreed to anything if you two aren t really official, you re just Whatever.
Every player realizes eventually that this type or types of thing works. For as long like he s in relationship mode (at least sometimes), most women will give him the perks that come from being committed as he acts. Therefore, he plays house as he s nevertheless playing the industry.
You have, he ll probably do a lot of flip flopping because he won t label what. Often, he ll behave like you two are in a severe relationship. In other cases, he ll behave like you re scarcely friends.
It’s going to appear really inconsistent to start with, unless you clue to the proven fact that he wants most of the advantages of being to you and never having to place any such thing in on their end.